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Why Are We So Obsessed With Dead Girls? These Books Explore if True Crime Is Ethical

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What’s the deal with true crime? That’s the question we asked recently Myself on Book Riot’s Mysteries and Thrillers Podcast, read or die. My co-host Katie McLane Horner and I took an episode to read some recent(ish) titles about true crime and how the genre is evolving. For too long, true crime has thrived on our obsession with these violent acts. We can’t look away, mesmerized by the worst day of someone else’s life.

But in the past decade, more and more voices have been raised against our culture’s voyeuristic attitude toward violence against women and girls. They ask big questions like, What are the ethics behind the consumption of this content? Who is allowed to tell the story of these crimes? And whose stories are not being told?

The books below answer these and other questions.

A graphic of the cover of Dead Girls by Alice BolinA graphic of the cover of Dead Girls by Alice Bolin

Dead Girls: Essays on the Survival of American Culture by Alice Bolin

Why are we so obsessed with dead girls? when i first read dead girlsA light bulb went off in my brain. She says, “It’s clear that we love Dead Girl so much, enough to retell and retell her story again and again, to kill her again and again, but not enough to see a pattern. She’s always singular, an anomaly, a juicy new mystery.” I had never connected the dots before. Many true crime stories retell these tragedies as entertainment. But these true crime stories are real tragedies of people, not cheap content for people to consume. Bolin tackles these ideas from a variety of angles, outlining her ideas with precision.

Cover of Creep: Allegations and Confessions by Miriam Gurba; Photo of the author, a Latin womanCover of Creep: Allegations and Confessions by Miriam Gurba; Photo of the author, a Latin woman

Creep: Accusations and Confessions By Mariam Gurba

Who can tell the story of a survivor? For Mariam Gurba, the question is personal. As a survivor of sexual assault and long-term abuse by a partner, Gurba experiences the emotions that true crime obsessives obsess over. Gurba highlights what it is like to find oneself in such a narrative and the harsh realities of living in it. But she is not going to hand over her story to anyone else. This is his story. And she can tell as much or as little about it as she wants. What makes Gurba top class cultural criticism creep a must read.

A graphic of the cover of Unspeakable ActsA graphic of the cover of Unspeakable Acts

Unspeakable Acts: True Stories of Crime, Murder, Deceit and Obsession By Sarah Weinman

Can one cover a true crime story without exploitation? What would that kind of journalism look like? Weinman edited unspeakable act To showcase a new generation of true crime writers who handle their subjects with care and thoughtfulness. These writers are not exploitative. They center the stories of the victims and celebrate their lives. All of these stories present true crime from a different perspective. In one essay, a swindler is captured by the same women from whom he stole. It is about a missing trans woman and the disappointing response of the authorities when her family reported her missing. In another essay, we get an in-depth look into the life of Gypsy Rose Blanchard and her parasocial following, who insisted that they knew what “really” happened.


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